its been five months we're together in marriage life. I am coming from broken heart family, live my life mostly with only few friends at school, Church and boarding house, stay in 3x3 meters room and move more than 17 times in life, that makes me not too attached or involved intensively with anyone. its been tough, I can say that. and last week, we gotta problem with Arisan . Hahaha! My husband is a pure Javanese man who was born in Jakarta with modern life. But behind that scene, all their big family live in their Javanese style. I can not afford that. One example, we need to go for family gathering named " Arisan " twice a month, one from mother side, another one from father side. They all soo big family. Main family consist of 4 siblings (and 4 in law) with 8 niece. Father has 2 brother and 6 sister and each has 3 or 4 daughter or son and each has children as well. From mother side, she has 12 sibling and each has 3 or 4 daughter and son with chi
we have never as young as this day